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Regarding this world.....

The Prophet Muhammad said
" The one who makes this world his focus, God will deprive him of contentment and heartfelt satisfaction. He will remain ever in greedy pursuit of wealth and unattainable desires, and he will never receive more than the share that God has ordained for him.

Whoever makes their focus the next life, God will bestow contentment and heartfelt satisfaction on them. He will also protect them from being greedy for wealth, and they will get their allotted share in this world"

(Emerick, Y. 2000"The Meaning of the Holy Qu'ran in Today's English" pg. 296)

Saturday, July 30, 2011

Great short audio- "The Real Hijab" "Hijab- a shared responsibility"

http://en.wathakker.net/lib_audio/view.php?id=166



Great short lecture from Sheikh Yusuf Estes about hijab.

Highlights
 -notes that modesty is the reason everyone wears clothes so hijab is a religious extension of that and the logical reason behind it
-notes that Catholic nuns wear their habits all the time, regardless of who they are around and thus the Islamic hijab is not a burden by comparison.
Reflection
I appreciate the straightforward approach at hijab and how it is not a practice that is nonsensical or backward, but a blessed show of faith. I pray that I will keep this perspective in mind when observing hijab is more difficult on some days and when I feel the lack of support particularly strong, inshAllah

http://en.wathakker.net/lib_audio/view.php?id=561
Hijab- A Shared Responsibility

Highlights
-the men in a woman's life are responsible for guidance as a believer and will be punished for discouraging hijab
-modesty is required of men and women
-hijab is defined in great detail in the Quran to denote its significance

Reflection
I struggle with the 'shared responsibility' of hijab in my own life given my non-Islamic upbringing and my husband who is less observant than me. I pray for strength to uphold my modesty in the face of occasional outside opposition and at times frequent inner struggle- inshAllah
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Monday, July 25, 2011

American Muslims and Discrimination- thoughts

http://64.19.142.10/msnbcmedia2.msn.com/j/MSNBC/Components/Photo/_new/110625-kulsoom-lifting-05.grid-6x2.jpg

Kulsoom Abdullah recently won a rules battle over the right to observe hijab during competition for her sport of weightlifting, inspiring others to hope for less discrimination toward athletic hijabis. This lead me to wonder about two points- 1) on the dedication of these hijabis to their faith  2) on why some are so resistant to making accommodations.

First, as I am personally struggling with my own definition of hijab in my life, I feel pride and inspiration at these women who refuse to 'stand down' to giving up hijab to work or 'play'. I have a job interview this week and my Christian family feels that not wearing hijab will be more beneficial to landing a job- perhaps in my military Christian town. I have already modified my own hijab to be more of a hair covering hat-style, non tight clothes, anything else goes thing so I do feel like I'm compromising. But for what? and who? If I get a job sans-hijab, then I'll struggle with 'when do I wear hijab at work?" 'how will they react?" "should I just not wear it at all anymore?" Regardless of my modifications, I don't want to fully compromise myself.

And that leads me back to the women who don't compromise- they no doubt enjoy their sports, hobbies, and earning money. But they show from their actions, these complete strangers to me and the world, that they love obeying God more then anything else. Bottom line. And God bless them because it inspires people like me to be true to God, faith, and the American freedoms I have been blessed with as a citizen. And its so ridiculous when people say American Muslims are not patriotic- this is one of the few 'western' countries that has laws protecting hijab and freedom of religion. That alone makes me patriotic, despite the actions of some businesses or individuals who demonstrate hate



http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/03/29/muslim-discrimination-cas_n_842076.html

The second point makes me think of the 'fear of the unknown' and how Americans can be resistant to foreign practices (unless businesses benefit from them/ 'press one for espanol') and hijab is definitely something that is not common. I understand some safety concerns in some sports like maybe soccer due to strangulation concerns but most times, hijab is safe in many situations pertaining to work and play. So its interesting when I see news article commenters mention "go back home" and such when the topic is discrimination of hijab.

Tony Blair called hijab a 'mark of separation" but how, really? Each person on the street may wear something that makes them look different and unique and its accepted- miniskirts, long hair on men, crazy high heels, etc. Should all people look exactly the same with uniforms as to not offend anyone else? Additionally, religion is not a foreign 'import' (anyone can be any religion, regardless of nationality) and no one scoffs on a modestly dressed Christian is involved in an event- hijab, however, is so different from the norm and not easy to ignore that people seem to be unable to deal with it. So what is it? I try to remember how I felt when I saw hijabis prior to converting- I remember feeling curious and impressed that women would be so observant to their faith. I suppose people may fear this 'unknown' will be more prevalent in American society and point out the differences between modest and 'free' or immodest.  Like smoking a cigarette in front of a nun, perhaps others feel a silent religious-based condemnation that makes them uncomfortable. Perhaps this islamophobia will die down as the anti-Judaism had in America long ago- they're now loved everywhere or otherwise protected. And gays are starting to win their fights too, regardless of the Islamic ideologies on that, just speaking from a democratic country standpoint.  I just pray that people will not be harmed anymore due to intolerance. Inshallah.

Friday, July 22, 2011

Ramadan Goal- What's it all about?!

Ok so I am hugely excited for Ramadan this year for several reasons-

 1) this is my first Ramadan with my baby so I can draw inspiration from him to do a good job (one day inshallah he will observe it too)

2) I have never offically fasted an entire Ramadan or read the Quran the whole month since converting in 2009 so I look forward to accomplishing that goal


So with my motivation comes the realization that I need a refresher/ education on Ramadan- with no one around to ask for guidance its hard to know what to do so I will consult the internet and the other resources I have available. 

Goal- learn all I need to know about Ramandan (beyond not eating/drinking/smoking/relations)- practices, duas, ways to stay motivated by the end of this Month

Ramadan Primer

Learn the basics of Ramadan, the holiest month of the year and one of the five pillars of Islam. And visit "The Beliefnet Guide to Ramadan" to learn more about this spirtual fasting month.
RAMADAN
When It HappensRamadan is the ninth month of the Muslim calendar, which is based on the moon. The western dates of the holiday move up about 10 days every year. In 2010, Ramadan is predicted to begin on August 11th and end on September 10th.
SignificanceThe Qur'an was first revealed to Prophet Muhammad during the month of Ramadan. The month is a special time of worship, Qur'an reading, charitable acts, and individual reflection and purification.
Main Qur'anic Source"Ramadan is the month during which the Qur'an was revealed, providing guidance for the people, clear teachings, and the statute book. Those of you who witness this month shall fast therein" (2:185).
What's Prohibited
  • Eating and drinking from dawn to sunset
  • Sexual activity during those hours
  • Smoking during those hours
  • Using profane language
  • Backbiting (speaking ill of others) is also discouraged
Why the FastAmong many reasons, Muslims fast to heighten spirituality and practice self-restraint, as the Qur'an states, "O ye who believe! Fasting is prescribed to you as it was prescribed to those before you, that ye may [learn] self-restraint" (2:183).
Who Should FastAll Muslims who have reached puberty are required to fast. Exceptions include men and women who are too old to fast, those who are too ill, women in the advanced stages of pregnancy, and women who are menstruating.
Other Requirements
  • Five daily prayers must be offered for that day's fast to have meaning
  • Reading the entire Qur'an during the month is strongly recommended
  • The recitation of the Taraweeh prayer, or Night prayer following the 'Isha prayer, the obligatory fifth daily prayer, is strongly recommended
Important Meals
  • Suhur, the meal before daybreak
  • Iftar, the meal after sunset, eaten as soon as possible after the sun sets
End of the FastEach day's fast is broken with water and dates before the prayers and Iftar, the evening meal.
The Night of PowerLaylat Al Qadr, or the Night of Power, occurs on the night of one of the odd days during the last ten days of Ramadan. It is widely believed to fall on the 27th day of Ramadan. This night is commemorated as the night Prophet Muhammad received the first revelation of the Qur'an. The Qur'an calls this night "better than a thousand months." Muslims spend the night in prayer and devotion.
End of the MonthMuslims celebrate the end of the fast with the joyous festival of Eid Al-Fitr, the Festival of Breaking the Fast. They attend special congregational prayers in the morning and greet each other with "Eid Mubarak," or "Holiday Blessings."


Read more: http://www.beliefnet.com/Faiths/Islam/2007/01/Ramadan-Primer.aspx#ixzz1SrgOxPgU

Finally- Reality show on Muslims!

I was so surprised and happy to hear of TLC filming a show on Dearborn, MI Muslims to premiere in November- I had always argued at home about the lack of Muslims on popular TV when polygamous Mormons have a show. Of course reality TV is seldom actually portraying 'reality' so will this show matter? Will the 43% of Americans who are ignorant of Islam be more knowledgeable?

http://www.mlive.com/tv/index.ssf/2011/07/tlc_to_premiere_all-american_m.html 
















Of course the much needed controversy that reality shows require will most likely be on the non-observant Muslim sister of a hijabi according to articles I've read. I worry that the human side that all observant people have, which may not be perfect 24/7, won't negatively influence perceptions of Muslims. I know when I wear hijab, traditional style or not, I always feel a pressure to behave better than normal, which is a good thing most of the time really.

http://www.onislam.net/english/news/americas/453172-reality-show-draws-images-of-us-muslims.html 


In the end, people will believe what they want, regardless of any slant placed on a reality show about America's number one group to dump on (of the moment.) So I just hope its enjoyable and I'm glad Islam will be a focus in a more positive matter for once. Mashallah

Thursday, July 7, 2011

Adjustments

Having watched the movie ‘the adjustment buearu’ I can see the correlations of that movie and Islam, in life and God.  We have limited free will, which I take to mean that God has a set plan for us but we can choose to follow His plan or not. The movie suggests likewise but that when we are irresponsible with our free will, it will be taken from us and our ‘plan’ of life will be set. The paths leading to career success and love will be pre-determined. Is real life also a series of paths? Did life take me on this journey of parenthood and marriage? I worry at times if my depression or negative perception is because I should be on a different path or that I;m not satisfied with  my path chosen by Allah. I worry about unworthiness and being lost, feeling lost.

Perhaps like in the movie I need to rethink what fulfills me, tune into my triggers of happiness. Damon’s character though politics filled him but it wasn’t the case/ his love interest was willing to forgo career happiness for love. I grew up believing the college and career path would fulfill me but it hasn’t. So I need to adjust my perception, look deeper at who I am and not hold back.  I yearn to feel more free and loose but hold back so much out of fear of embarrassment and failure, of being rejected and of disappointing- God, myself, my family.  What if I lived like ‘no one was watching?’ like a famous person who didn’t fear paparazzi at every turn. What if I absorbed my faith’s teachings without the connotations of ‘bad’ and ‘rules’ but just as a guide on the path of happiness?

 I want to let go and (truly) let God